相信那本風靡職場的《杜拉拉昇職記》讓很多人感嘆不已，包括我自己，同樣是工作，為什麼別人就那麼的風生水起呢？也許下面有一點你要尋找的答案。
怎樣與同事相處-樂於助人
Office protocol can make it different for one employee to ask anther for help. While no one likes the shirker who never seems to be able to quite get his own projects finished and turns helplessly to peers for assistance, most will willingly volunteer to lend a hand to someone who has helped him or her。
對於同事間尋求幫助，辦公室內的禮節往往起著重要的作用。往往沒人願意幫助那種老是無法完成自己工作，愛偷懶的人；而大多數人還是樂意主動地幫助那些曾經也幫助過自己的同事。
If you know a coworker is working through lunch to collate a large client packet, your volunteering to stay and help will be gratefully received and most often returned when it's you who is stuck. I say voluntarily because your offer is not to add up paid overtime hours. It is to help a peer in need。
如果知道同事午飯時間還一直忙著校對客戶的檔案，您主動提出留下來幫助他，會得到他的感激，在你遇到同樣的情形時，會得到他的回報。我所指的'主動，是因為您的協助是沒有加班費的。屬於助人於困難時機。
If your offer is accepted, you do not, however, store it away in your mental favor bank or ever remind everyone what a good person you were for helping------you simply hope the favor will be returned when it's you who is overloaded。
一旦你的好意被接受，不要刻意地老記著或提醒每個人您曾如何地幫助過他們--在你遇到力不從心的情況下總會有人回報你的。
新僱員應該如何稱呼同事？
Every office has its own protocol for who is called by his or her first name and who is called by his or her title. New employees should follow suit, after listening carefully to how people are addressed。
對於男女同事的名稱或職位的稱呼，各個公司有不同的規矩。新僱員應該注意他們相互如何稱呼而效仿。
If yours is a "title" office, but you call your boss Charlie when meeting alone, you should still call him Mr. Dodd when others are around。
如果您的公司規矩是稱呼職位，那麼在單獨會見時，您可以直呼老闆查理，而有其他人在場時，應稱其多迪先生。
If yours is an informal office, you still should wait for the other person to say, "Please call me Jim," before doing so, if he has been introduced to you as "Mr. Culyer."
如果您的公司比較隨便，您最好還是等到別人把“庫葉先生”介紹給您後再如此稱呼。在此之前，你還是要等他對你說：“請叫我Jim吧。”
Everyone, no matter whether the office is formal of informal, has a name. No assistant should ever be referred to as "my girl." She is, if a possessive must be used, "Charlene Walter, my assistant," or "Angela Badalato, my assistant."
無論公司是否有無規矩，每個人都有稱呼。不是每個經理助理都可以用類似“姑娘”的倪稱。如果必須說明所屬關係，則應如此介紹：她是Charlene Walter，我的助理，或我的助理 Angela Badalato。
Say Good-Bye 職場上如何道別？
會話篇
Section A
Steven: Well. I have an appointment now。
Lily: I'm in quite a hurry too。
Steven: Good to see you. Goodbye。
Lily: Goodbye. Take care of yourself。
Section B
Lily: I guess I'd better go now。
Steven: I've got to be going now too。
Lily: In that case, I'll be seeing you。
Steven: So long. See you later。
Section C
Steven: It's getting late, and I have to go now。
Lily: We're sorry you have to leave。
Steven: Please excuse me, won't you?
Lily: Certainly. Come back soon。
Section D
Lily: I'm glad to have met you。
Steven: Thank you. It was nice to have seen you。
Lily: I hope we can get together again。
Steven: Yes. I'll be looking forward to it。
Section E
Steven: I think I have to leave now。
Lily: Must you go soon?
Steven: I'm afraid I really have to 。
Lily: Well, it was fun to get together again。
句型篇
I have a meeting soon。
I have an engagement soon。
I have an engagement very shortly。
I have an date very shortly。
I think I'd better go now。
I think I should go now。
I think I ought to go now。
I think I must go now。
It's getting dark。
It's getting dark outside。
I've to go quite soon。
I must go quite soon。
I must leave quite soon。
I've got to go leave in a few minutes。
It was fun to get together again。
It was exciting to get together again。
